You have said mean things, you even started to feel stronger after a painful break up. You see him or her at a party and He or she comes towards you. Is your heart beating faster? Is the attraction gone? Is the hurt gone? Once you loved someone it’s very hard to forget them. People do move on every day however. In a realationship if one or the other ignores the feelings of the one that loves them what is going to happen? Sometimes in relationships of any kind people can take each other for granted.We need to talk. You have to keep a open line of communication. I know many people like to play the strong silent type but it is much better to hear what one feels, hopes dreams or hurts. We have seen in movies time and time again one or other characters comes back after realizing he or she truly loved the one they left behind and it was too late the woman is married swinging a baby on the porch swing or the woman finds her beloved at the aisle of a church ready to say “I do.” none of can predict the future but in the present if you love someone enjoy the moment don’t be afraid to love someone back.

You had it all. You had chemistry, you fell in love. The only problem was he was thousands of miles away and dumping you was easy it was just a click away..You cried, you hurt. You thought after all you had been through online nothing could break you up again. Distance stretched before you and you could not reach the one you loved. He would not wait for you to come to his country, it was over.I once believed Distance could not damage real love, maybe it wasn’t real love.I won’t know because I can’t get to him.My on line love the guy I met online, laughed with, talked to heard him say on the phone “I love you.” Distance…if I was there he would of known what it was like to hold me in his arms he would of known my touch and “breaking up” wouldn’t have been so easy.

If Distance did play a part in your online break up how can you deal with it?

*Accept it- Nothing we can do can change geography
*Think in the present
*It takes two people to be in a realationship if he or she wasn’t willing to try to come see you remember that fact in a realationship both people should work together to meet
*Don’t dislike the country he or she is in-I am sure you learned a lot about the state or country your loved one is in take that knowledge and cherish it you learned something about a different place and or culture!
Let time heal wounds-If you both have cut each other out of your lives accept it, mourn for the loss of love, talk to people, keep busy, know you are valuable.
And most of all if you two really care no miles in the world could separate you in body but never in spirt and if it’s destined that you will meet someday you will !!

*and if not
keep learning about different places no one can ever take away the things you learn.